Thursday, December 29, 2011

Fish ----> Shark!

Is it good about dreaming of fish?

Hmmm…. I wonder as I got nothing yet from my dream…but my mum said according to the dream of fish, it is a good luck…bring wealthy!

On Monday, 29 August 2011: I dreamt of some small fishes in front of me…then I forgot other related…lolz..
On Tuesday, 30 August 2011: I dreamt of fish again. This time, I can remember. I saw I have been visiting my grandpa’s house (he’s now in peace) where is in Kompong Cham Province. Now that house updates a lot by my aunt after my grandpa passed away these 3 years but in my dream, I saw as everything keep as in the past time. I even saw a strange view….there was a waterfall from the road to my grandpa’s house. Then I was so happy to stand and looking at it…m in love with this kind of nature! ^^
Suddenly, I saw a small fish, its size was something equal to my thumb’s size…it seemed about to die under the sunshine…so pitiful it was! Then I took it to keep on a table…and try to take lotus’s leaf to cover it by watering on it too…I hope it would alive. Huhhh,  I saw that fish was growing up! It became bigger and bigger…yis! It became to be big just about to my leg’s size. Then, I recognized as it is the baby shark…the pity baby shark == I started thinking of my action. I thought I helped dangerous creature...if it turns bigger and bigger so, then at a point as it’s in hunger, it would eat me! oyyy….dangerous! However, after I looked at it I felt negatively to my previous thought. I thought that baby shark is so lovely and knowledgeable…hahaha….lop man nhom! I thought it would understand of my kindness to it and respected me! o_O” Next, I kept helping it…then I got up! It’s morning again! Lolz….
After I woke up, I wonder myself …why din’t I put that fish into the water? Hahaha…but I just tried to take the water to watering it instead. Stupid! In addition, I maybe more stupid… What kind of shark which will live in waterfall? Gikgikgikgik…

By Wednesday, 31 August 2011…I still got the signal of luck from my left eye...in fact, it never get wrong I believe because if I got from left eye is my lucky but if right eye, can’t describe more beside dangerous or damage or unlucky….in short…jong rite…ngai soy…hmmm! But to my dream, I got nothing special or precious yet. Don’t you know Mr or Ms or little kid of Lucky…I’m waiting for you…come on early please!

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Start with Blind...end with blind


There was a blind girl who hated herself very much because of being blind.
She hated everyone except her boyfriend. The girl said if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend. 

One lucky day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her!
Then she saw everything including her boyfriend...
Her boyfriend then asked her, “Now that u can see, will you marry me?"
The girl was SHOCKED when she saw that her boyfriend was blind!
She said, “I am sorry but I can't marry you because u are blind."
Her boyfriend walked away with tears...
and said,
"Please just take care of my eyes...."

SMS between my sister & me!


My sister, she was very poor of English language and after many months improvement from me, she get better now. However, she still has many mistakes. That can be said as she has acceptable English comprehension.
Of course, I just got married and moved the house about two weeks. Today, in the morning of Wednesday, 28 December 2011 she messaged to me. Her words were not completely right but the meanings of those messages are shaking my heart!

Those messages:

My sister: (sad face) I miss you nas and you miss me or not eat breakfast yet. Bey

Me: Why not sister? Miss u too! Already breakfast….nham mii..u?

My sister: Every day you sleep well te men ey eat a lot te delicious ot. a oun kor miss you hei that member in family miss you all. When eat dinner last night dad talk about you tha if you stay at home easy you ban help family ban a lot ban tech a oun and you ban bought something to put in home and mum speak tha if you stay at home can go to market with you on saturday or sunday ban but now ban not cos me very busy at school and at my shop. I want to change my work nas I want a day off a lot than every day I know I ban salary a lot but ot day off ban you help me arm te. Oh a man and a mix kor miss you nas del. Bey have a good day na sister.

Me: Hahaha…everyone miss me even our dogs! I’m so lucky n really happy! Hay ma dear sister, tel our parents if they need me, juz cal me is ok! One more, ur job…if wanna move, start apply to any places u want to work for. Let’s try urself, do not only wait my help coz I believe u can do it! ;) Nice day sis!

My sister: Want help pi you cos me don’t know where is good I can’t find. Why you don’t want to help me.

My sister: (another message) The weather is to cold and in my shop is very very cold and at your home is cold or not AND bong me is find or not?.
Me: I stil keep helping u to find but I also want u to try by urself too…who could help u if u don even know how to help urself??

My sister: I know everything but I can’t which one is better and don’t know where the place.

Me: So then, if you interested any places, let cal to ask me. I wil tel u if it good or not. Okay?

My sister: Yes it ok.

ជំងឺមហារីក​មាត់ស្បូន

​លោក​អ្នក​ត្រូវ​ដឹង​ថា​ នៅ​លើ​ពិភពលោក​យើង​នេះ ជំងឺ​មហា​រី​មាត់ ស្បូន​ គឺជា​ជំងឺ​ដ៏​កាចសាហាវបំផុត​ បន្ទាប់​ពី​ជំងឺមហារីក​ដោះ ។ ផ្ទុយ​ទៅ​វិញ​ នៅ​ក្នុង​ប្រទេស​កម្ពុជា​យើង​ជំងឺមហារីក​ស្បូន​គឺ​ដើរតួ​ទី​មួយ​ចំណែកឯ​ជំងឺ ​​មហា​រីក​ដោះ​ គឺ​ដើរ​តួ​​ទី២​វិញ​ ។
លោក​សាស្ដ្រ​ាចា​រ្យ​វេជ្ជបណ្ឌិតអ៊ូច ឌី​ណា អ្នក​ឯក​ទេស​ផ្នែក​សម្ភព​និង​រោគ​ស្ដ្រី​នៃ​មន្ទីរពេទ្យ​កាល់​ម៉ែ​ត​​មាន​ ប្រសាសន៍​ឱ្យ​ដឹង​ថា ជំងឺ​មហា​រីក​ស្បូន​គឺ​កើតឡើង​ដោយ​ការ​ឆ្លង​ពី​ប្រភេទ​វី​រុស​ម្យ៉ាង​ដែល​គេ ​ហៅ​ថា Human papillo​ma-​virus (HPV) ហើយ​ការ​ឆ្លង​វីរុសនេះ​៩០​ភាគ​រយ​ដែល​បណ្ដាល​ឱ្យ​កើត​មាន​ជំងឺមហារីក​ មាត់ស្បូន​ ។ ​ចំពោះ​មូល​េហតុ ដែល​បណ្តាល​ឱ្យ​កើត​ជំងឺ​​​នេះគឺ៖
-​ឆ្លង​តាម​ការ​រួម​ភេទៈ ចំពោះ​ស្ដ្រី​រកស៊ី​ផ្លូវ​ភេទ​ ឬ​ស្ដ្រី​ដែល​ចូល​ចិត្ដ​ផ្លាស់​ប្ដូ​រ​ដៃគូ​​ច្រើន
-​ការ​ជក់បារីៈ ​ផ្សែងបារីមានផ្ទុកនូវសារ​ធាតុ​គីមី​​ដែលអាចបំផ្លាញកោសិកាក្នុងខ្លួនមនុស្ស​យើង ។
-​អ្នក​កើត​ជំងឺអេដស៍​ ឬ​កាមរោគ​ គឺជា​មុខ​សញ្ញា​​មួយ​ដែល​អាច​ឆ្លង​ដោយ​ងាយស្រួល​
បំផុត​ ។
-​ស្ដ្រី​ដែល​ចូល​ចិត្ដ​ទទួលទាន​ស្រា​ច្រើន​ហួស​កម្រិត ក៏​អាច​ប្រឈម​​នឹង​ជំងឺមហារីក​មាត់ស្បូន​បាន​ដែរ​ ។
រោគ​សញ្ញា​​ដែល​គួរ​ឱ្យ​ចាប់អារម្មណ៍​នោះ​​គឺ​៖
- ​មាន​ហូរ​ឈាម​តាម​ទា្វ​រមាសនៅ​ក្រោយ​​ពេល​រួម​ភេទ ឬ​ក៏​ការ​ធ្លាក់ឈាម​ខុស​ធម្មតា​ពេល​មក​រដូវ​របស់​ស្ដ្រី​នេះ​ជា​រោគ​សញ្ញា​ ដែល​អ្នកជំងឺ​គួ​រ​តែ​ប្រញាប់​ទៅ​ជួប​ជា​​មួយ​អ្នកឯកទេស​ ។
-​អាច​មាន​ទឹកថ្លា​ៗ​ ខាប់​ដូច​ជា​ទឹករងៃ ​ឬ​ធ្លាក់​ស​ហើយ​អាច​មាន​ធ្លាក់​ច្រើន​ចេញពី​ទ្វារ
មាស​ ។
- ​ចំពោះ​រោគ​សញ្ញា​មួយទៀត​​ មាន​តែ​គ្រូ​ពេទ្យ​ឯកទេស​នោះ​ទេ ដែល​អាច​ដឹង ​គឺ​នៅ​ពេល​គ្រូពេទ្យ​ពិនិត្យ​ទៅ​លើ​ស្បូន​របស់​អ្នកជំងឺឃើញ​ថា អាច​មាន​ដំបៅ​រលួយ ហើយ​មាន​ហូរ​ឈាម​ខ្លាំង ។ ទាំងនេះ​គឺជា​រោគ​សញ្ញា​មួយ​ដែល​អាច​បញ្ជាក់​ថា​ស្ដ្រី​អាច​នឹង​កើត​មាន​ ជំងឺមហារីក​មាត់​ស្បូន​ ។ តែ​ជំងឺ​មហា​រីក​មាត់ស្បូន​នេះ​គឺ​អាច​ការពារ​បាន​នៅ​ពេល​ ដែល​ស្ដ្រី​ម្នាក់​ៗ​ ធ្វើការ​តាមដាន និង​វែ​ក​មុខ​រក​រោគ​សញ្ញា​​បាន​ទាន​់​ពេលវេលា​​ ។ ការ​តាម​ដាន​នេះ​ គឺ​ធ្វើ​តែ​ចំពោះ​ស្ដ្រី​ ដែល​មាន​គូ​ស្រ​ករ​​ ឬ​ដៃ​គូ​ស្នេហា​ ​មិនមែន​ជា​ស្ដ្រី​នៅ​លីវ​ទេ​ ដោយ​​គិត​ពី​អាយុ​២៥​ឆ្នាំទៅ​ គឺ​ត្រូវ​តែ​ធ្វើការ​តាមដាន​គឺ​១​ឆ្នាំ​ម្ដង តែបើ​មិនឃើញ​គឺ​២​ឆ្នាំ​ ម្ដង តែបើ​២​ឆ្នាំ​ មិនឃើញ​ទៀត គឺ​ត្រូវ​ពិនិត្យ​ជា​រៀង​រាល់​៣​ឆ្នាំ​ម្ដង​ ដើម្បី​ចៀស​ផុត​ពី​ការ​កើត​មានជំងឺ​ដ៏​កាចសាហាវ​នេះ​ ។

សព្វ​ថ្ងៃ​នេះ​ នៅ​ប្រទេស​កម្ពុជា​យើង​ក៏​មាន​វ៉ាក់​សាំង​​ការពារ​ជំងឺមហារីក​មាត់ស្បូន​នេះ ​ដែរ  ហើយ​​​រយៈ​ពេល​នៃ​ការ​ឆ្លង​ជំងឺ​នេះ​គឺ​មាន​រយៈ ពេល​​៣​ឆ្នាំ​ដែល​អាច​កើត​ជំងឺ​នេះ​។ ជំងឺមហារីក​មាត់ស្បូន​ត្រូវ​បាន​គេ​ចែក​េចញ​ជា​ពីរ​ដំណាក់​កាលៈ
១-​ដំណាក់កាល​ពួន​សម្ងំ ជា​ដំណាក់កាល​មិន​ទាន់​រីក​រាលដាល​ទៅ​លើ​សេរី​រា​ង្គ​ផ្សេង​ៗ ដែល​នៅ​ជិត​មាត់ស្បូននោះ ។ ​ការ​ព្យាបាល​អាច​ជា​ដាច់បាន​មួយ​រយ​ភាគរយ បើសិនជា​ស្ដ្រី​ទៅ​ធ្វើការ​តាម​ដាន​​បាន​ទាន់​ពេលវេលា​ ។
២-​ដំណាក់កាល​ជំងឺ​មហា​រី​ស្បូន​រីក​រាលដាល ជា​ដំណាក់​កាល ដែល​ជំងឺ​នេះ​អាច​ស៊ី​រាលដាល​ទៅ​សេរី​រា​ង្គ​ផ្សេង​ៗ​ ដែល​នៅ​ក្បែរ​នោះ ដែល​ធ្វើ​ឱ្យ​អ្នកជំងឺ​ទទួល​រង​នូវ​ទុក្ខវេទនា​សព្វបែបយ៉ាង ដោយសារ​តែ​ជំងឺ​នេះ​រីក​រាលដាល​កាន់តែ​ខ្លាំង
ក្លា ។ បើសិនជា​ដល់​ដំណាក់​កាល​នេះ ការ​ព្យា​បាល​ គឺ​មិន​មាន​ប្រសិទ្ធិ​ភាព​នោះ​ទេ ដោយ​គ្រាន់​តែ​អាច​ប្រើប្រាស់​ថ្នាំ​សម្រាប់​ពន្យា​រ​អាយុជីវិត​តែ​ប៉ុណ្ណោះ ហើយ​អាច​មាន​រយៈពេល​ត្រឹម​តែ​១​ឆ្នាំទៅ​៥​ឆ្នាំ​ គឺ​ទៅ​តាម​ទំហំ​នៃ​ដុំ​មហារីក​ ។

លោក​សាស្ដ្រ​ាចារ្យ​បាន​បន្ថែម​ឱ្យ​ដឹង​ទៀត​ថា ចំពោះ​ការ​ព្យាបាល​ជំងឺមហារីក​មាត់ស្បូន​នេះ​គឺ​មាន​៤​ដំណាក់កាល ដែល​អាច​ធ្វើ​ឱ្យ​អ្នកជំងឺ មានការ​ធូ​ស្រាល​បាន​បន្ដិចបន្ដួច​ និង​អាច​ពន្យា​រ​អាយុជីវិត​បាន​ដូចជា​៖
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Monday, December 26, 2011

What should I do when I'm bored?

No answer…I don’t know what to do beside writing…or because I am a student of English Literature? NO…but because I’m boring but I cannot listen to music, cannot view facebook nor watch video…coz that was the working time…hmmm….sometime I’m really boring to be a professional staff. Oh… I got idea! I should talk about what I want…good? Yeah! Sure! But, what I want to talk about? I trust you would believe, sometime we got stuck and even hard to find what to do. Right now, my topic today is nothing to talk about. hehehe.. So crazy you think I am, I guess. Yeah, no problems…you can think so, coz I'm not sure if I'm not neither. lol… Eh, let me talk about my dislike? Emmm, let it be… in fact, it’s also my concern currently.

It relates to my workplace. Have you ever experience in sales & marketing? To me, I have been in this field about almost 3 years. I honestly confess as I really hate it. I hate being the sales and marketing staff with the new products/ new coming brand. I too much hate it. Maybe there is hard to show how much I hate it since it's quite unlimited amount. With new products, we need to give a lot of effort on it. It doesn’t mean I don’t like challenging but I don’t like wasting my time, is much a better reason. I don’t think I should do it while I have many choices to choose. In fact, if those products are already going well in market, I would not hesitate to be in this position. Is it the selfish word? It would be but it’s the reality of mine. I think this position bring me a lot of conflict because I also had experience in this. While there are new products, they give staff commission and when the word of Commission come up, the word of Interfere would also occur. People always say that Money is not everything. However, no money, we get none-everything… it’s extremely correct. Even good friends, they still turn to be enemy easily because of money. I frankly tend to escape from being in this field. Later on, I moved into HR field which satisfied me a lot at first step. Although, it seems the same and the same things while being the HR in recruitment agency, we need to find candidates to fit the vacancies… just like sales and marketing, selling people’ qualification and ability. However, it makes me feel busy and yeah, I love being busy, then it is my favorite...
Everything cannot just stay stable, absolutely agree with this. It would be up and down by the situation. My career also doesn’t stay the same! Policy had been changed! We are agency of recruitment but according to the new plan of New Year, we would mix this field into sales and marketing field. Then, it is barrier in my views. Our team consultants soon, in January new year, we would be required to go outside mostly to find clients. We need to respond to our target in order to reach the plan. Is it an easy work? Everyone know, it is not an easy one but if they have commitment, then that’s alright. How about this fat no-confident girl? ==' I don’t want to do it at all. Repeatedly, I hate going outside and hate being sales staff. In addition, according to new plan, everyone in consultant team must go to each places as had been planned; especially the universities and organizations in term of presenting and explaining about our company service, building capacity, yeah, it is public speaking. To me, it is another obstacle while I don’t have bravery to stand up and spreading my speech in front of many people. I would feel shaking and much scare to this environment. Many eyes are looking to me, I’m afraid of losing face because there are many people who keep watching me so it will be easily to see my mistakes. Even I have a huge warm heart, but I also feel negatively to bad criticizing or gossip. I’m sad!!!
Some said everyone has their talent. Do you think so? I support this idea. No matter how much you try to do something that is not your talent, you can’t reach it or even reach it very hard. For example, a girl who is quite good at chemistry, biology and dream to be a doctor; however, her parents thought it was not good for their elder daughter because she needed to spend many years in learning this, she would be much old. They wanted her to have husband after she graduated. They wanted to see her with her own family. So they forced her to learn accounting skill. They thought it was also a good skill and spent only around 4 years to learn. She couldn’t deny and accepted with unsatisfied. Two years later, she knew nothing of accounting. She felt stress of it and told her parents it's better if they allowed her to stay home instead of studying that skill. At that time, her parents understood it. Even they had forced her and she'd agreed to accept as well but since she didn’t like it, then it was nothing for her while it would become the wasting time. Finally they agreed to let her study medicine. She would spend more time in this field because there was 2 years already that was spent useless to her but she’s really love to get it. Later, she became the outstanding student in class; got the admiration with high score of writing or even oral test. You may doubt if it is true or why I know it, isn’t it? Of course, it is the real one and she's my best friend, Malika.
Thus, some people have talent in running business. No matter how much they got educated or training to be a professional staff, finally they would go back to their skill and run their own business because it is the real thing could make them happy and tend to do it. Just like me, I’m so good at encouragement or persuading other, warm them and give suggestions or comments; by the way, public speaking is not my skill so I believe, how much I have been forced to do it, how much I would keep trying, how long I would spend my time, I still cannot do it well. It’s not what I love but what I hate. Sure, training keeps us improving, so I may be able to improve my presentation skill; still, it is not the best one as be expected. Then, why should I do it? Why need to force me to do it? No answer…lets they answer, the ones who want me to become so. They may think “I’m so weak…I’m not brave…I’m not challenging…it’s an easy task but I’m not able to do it, poor me…I may become the useless resource of company…” Of course, it is their talent, how could they see it as a hard one? Although, I don’t really care much, I would be here as long as I can pay my patient since fast moving in career is not a good one but if that pressure still say hello to me and keep chasing me, I’m better staying home. Hahhahaa….staying home and jobless!? No… I’m just kidding. I wouldn’t staying home but I wound find another better career which make me happy to be with. Result will start from commitment. As commitment would not build in me with Sales & Marketing nor Public Speak, no reason to be here. Just like, would you marry and keep living with the one you hate? Hhahahah…. I know your real answer. Everyone would answer the same things even they said agree, but don’t believe it, just the fake one.

Working is not easy but a happy time with colleagues, to me. At the same time, being under other power is not the thing everyone wishes to have. Certainly, everyone wants to grow faster and be the leader. Yeahhhh, I’m so young to be the leader in professional company, I know this! But I’m not young to run business….lol….that’s it! I would run my own business. Not a professional one but just be a good one, a smooth one which can support my family well. I would be a warm kind boss but powerful to my staff, I would seek to see their talent before employ them and would not regret if I employed them. It is what containing in my mind and it is what I want to raise here. Still, I got another doubt…..what will be the appropriate business for me? loading….in processing to consider….lolzzzz

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Money VS Bored

WORKING…. money and bored start from working. People want to have job and want to work with many different reasons. They may want to use their time valuable, their favorite or to work for using their specific skill or maybe they want to get the life development etc. Although, there still have another reason most people expect to have, that’s Money! Yeah, yeah… me too. I’m working for money in return. I’m not afraid to confess this since it is the first attraction to me. I need money to support my daily life and some part of family. Sure, this is the reason leads me to be better as well. This reason guides me to become more professional and development according to my effort in working (for money)! Lol

Everything cannot just go on well, I guess. Even that is my favorite job, my favorite tasks, the way I use to earn money but it still makes me bored sometime. Frankly, I have been yawning some days very often until my mouth almost gets hurt. It doesn’t mean I’m so free, it doesn’t mean I don’t know how to work or don’t know how to use the time accurately; still, it may start from our inner feeling. There are plenty works to do at my office. Anyway, I still get bored…since I need to do the same things everyday and always. This is the pressure from work. Of course, some works are really hard to success, however, we are still forced to overcome that…for success. Emm…I see the bright of improvement from that kind of confident, that effort but I start lazy to walk toward it. Moreover, feeling of bored can be from the environment or colleagues. Pressure from our around people or management. No need to explain more about this last cause since I believe everyone also meet these kinda situations. You may know this even much clearly than my explanation.

I wanna get the suggestions, the advices. That would be my appreciation for any ideas which bring me to be a way from bored feeling. Should I stop working? Or should I start my own business? If so, where should I take money from to support that??? ==^

Monday, November 14, 2011

Love Plant

Couple…about one couple’s story…it seems interesting! No one knows if that happen to other people or not; however, it happens to a couple whom the wife is a bit young while the husband is a bit older… 21 VS 30 years old.
MARRIED, it means two persons agree to walk on the same way to the further future, spending time together to achieve goals, get success or overcome obstacles. Although, Married will come from only two sources, one is the Loved Married and another is Arranged Married. Many people believe that Loved Married leads couple to a happy and satisfied family while Arranged Married would not the good choice since it may causes the couple to have a distant relationship or no much care because they didn’t know each other well before their married or even didn’t know each other at all. Some said, for Arranged Married, if the both parties force themselves to accept, they would even divorce one day. How about if both parties agree to accept without forcing? Nothing impossible! Every single thing will occur from a start point.
The family who has daughters, parents will pay much concern on them as it is very important and seem the obligation of parents to prepare the future for their beloved children; especially the daughters. To this family also, parents have been discussing quite long time about their oldest daughter (21 years old) to have her own family. Then, the discussion moved to the final round while that family agreed to another family who has the oldest son (30 years old) for their oldest child to get married. That is both families’ insistence. Although, they still give the right to their child to consider. The decision is made in the case of the agreement from both families’ child. They both agree to respect their parents’ request. This is an Arranged Married which many countries; especially the Asian countries with ancient culture love judging their children’s future. The result of Arranged Married will always be different according to the couple. They would get a good future if they both strongly commit to have a good life and practice the best methods to get it.
Move Back, Both families want their children to get married in May after both children confirmed to accept this married in late March. But this decision is not successfully because both children want to take time to know each other before marrying. Their request was accepted and married delay to December instead. The a bit young lady with the a bit old guy begins to prepare themselves to get along with each other and make their relationship closer. From time to time, day to day, they both get closer and closer. They both are well at take care of each other, worry of each other and their plant of love start to grow up. Their love plant grows up very fast and very healthily. They spend sometime only with each other at weekend day, but they seem understand well of each sides. This couple catches up the good things, good behavior only to make their love plant to grow healthier. Finally, they both act to each other such really sweet and their real feeling always show in public even if they are in party with friends or family. They may think they don’t need to afraid of anything since they were already engaged and they have an exact plan of their wedding.
It becomes very funny about their story. It is not because they are good at get along with each other well in short time but it is funny while many of their relatives don’t believe that is the Arranged Married but they think this couple would love each other a few years ago already. They think both families of the lady and guy sides are trying to hide the fact. What are the reasons required to do that? Those relatives should not think so but should trust their own relatives more than this. Those relatives keep their eyes on watching this couple most of the time with the doubt in their head. A relative even asked directly to the young lady, the bride… [Could you tell me, is it real that you are in the arranged married?] The young lady had nothing to say without smiling and said YES. That relative tried to ask more and more, maybe for the reason to make that young lady to confess as they are in love but not the arranged one. That relative would need this answer…. Meanwhile, how can it happen while it is the arranged married for one hundred percentages? Not lose even a percentage! Lolz…
In short, LOVE can exist everywhere and every time according to both parties. How long or how short their love started, it is not really important. It’s much more necessary if that couple knows clearly what the love is, what they should always act for a growing love and what kind of environment or atmosphere should be offered. Thus, how deep of honest, responsibilities, take caring, respect each other, trust and understanding should be present in their daily life with the best method to maintenance their love, no doubt nor wonder more, they would get exactly sweet real love and happiness from their inner.
My Love Plant...always fresh n cool!

Monday, October 31, 2011

Countryside, Kompong Cham Province

Sunday, 30 October 2011 was the day of my cousin's son's birthday party that located in Kompong Cham Province. By the way to there, the views were quite nice to me... I'm not sure when that started...although, I do love visiting these kinds of landscapes...

on the left side of my grandma's house

This year, many provinces in Cambodia got disaster of flood; however, on the day I visited there, I saw the rice-plants there are starting to produce the rices....


I have been out and in several places... firstly, to visit by my father's side such as my grandma house, my cousins, my older aunt, my younger aunt...then we continues to the party house of my another cousins by my mom's side. In fact, my cousin's house is in Phnom Penh but he celebrated his son birthday party in Kompong Cham because it is his parents' need... my older uncle by my mum's side! lol...
On the way to Sre Veal, Srok Steng Trong, Kompong Cham province:
 
They look thin...
To the party, it's special...not because of the food or drinks but because of the present of my relatives...my beloved people! My aunt and my mother-in-law! ^^ They are so sweet to me; especially, my mother-in-law. She is very much trust and deep loving on me! It's my pleasure! lalala...

At about 3:15pm in the same day, we drove back home. To this trip, only my family (but no my sister since she was busy at work) and my fiance!

My little brother, Kosal
Ma style = =

My dad & that boy! lol
What does my bro gonna do? hahaha

This tall guy is my engaged-guy! ^^
Behind ma bro is ma beloved mom :*
In the Car! Similar?
My sister! She's at work...did not join our weekend days!








Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Mountain

While you guy see the word “mountain”, what kind of landscape would you imagine of?

Of course, mountain in our imagination would be the perfect one where is full of green color of the huge green field, trees, other plants, forest flowers and wild animals… right? That’s such a beautiful place to see and relax with family or friends. However, mountain is a place which could make us fear as well while there is very silent, we stay a lone and everything looks nonsense. That would give us the imagination of strangers, wild-creatures or even the ghost! Only one thing but it’s offering two far different views.

One day, in Phnom Penh, there was such a bad flood which made everything to sink from one to another one place. Many high building started to be shorter and shorter just because of the increasing of water’s level. By the way, I and my sister were trying to find a high place to stay and escaped from this disaster. I felt I knew my parents and little brother were already in a safe place, so only me and my sister needed to fight out. Both of us were walking in a silent street since most of the people moved to another place. I was thinking if I should stay in the highest building or what…discussing with my sister… [We should stay on the top of that hotel or on that bank???]. My sister said [It’s up to you, I would follow]. While we are the one who need to decide and it relates to another life, it’s much a heavy duty.

Further thinking, I thought we should not stay there since we would have no food to support our life. Then, I and my sister tried to find another safe place. We were riding motor and I saw many people go to a direction to province….I just followed. After a while, I saw a mountain and of course, the flood would arrived that place soon!!! How shocked I and Kunthear were!!! We decided to ride motor to the top of mountain. I saw an old man who was waiting in the middle distance of two gates for going up to the mountain. I asked why he didn’t escape from flood. He said it cannot affect him. I couldn’t talk more with him but just decided to start our machine of motor very strong to up mountain instead. 
That’s mountain would be the Ta Mao mountain but the view at that time seem not the same to the mountain I used to visit… looked sad and misery. By the way to up there, it was such a dark path and high-straight (plov choit/ plov chom noit)…we just tried our best to control our motor until the end, we reached the top! Was it lucky for us??? Oh, no…not at all... nonsense, more shock, more frightened I and my sister got.

On the top of that mountain was quite a small place where can only I, my sister and my motor stood on. There was no more space. How do you guy feel if you are on the top of a high place but you're hard to move, must be very careful or you will fall down? That was a deep scary feeling to us. I couldn’t even go back as it was too easily to get injure from that high path. I felt I and my sister would be able to live several days only for the most percentages since there was no food, no water, dangerous or even we would be eaten by any cruel animals such as eagle or snake. We got panic!!! Suddenly, the old man I met at the mountain gate appeared from that path…he said, [Okay my dear poor pity girls, followed me, I would take you all back to the safe one]. Nothing more I could decide but I and my sister just followed him. Fortunately, we arrived back our first place we met our old kind man. Million thanks to him for rescue us. I would give him even the amount of money or many kisses if he preferred; however, he didn’t. He may only follow his pure heart for helping other people without requiring the returns.  Our old man pointed us another gate and told us [Be smart and go by that way, then you both will reach the safest place of yours and be hurry or the flood would arrive in these short minutes]. We both bowed our head for thanks and high respectful to him with the eyes of almost crying. The feeling of excitement from his kindness and helpfulness we got.

We couldn’t spend more time, we both rushed to go through the way our old kind man pointed to. I’m not sure why at that time; I got much trust on him. I didn’t think it was dangerous as my previous path which I decided by myself. Our second path, it was big and easy to walk. We were walking for a while, then we saw two twin paths more, one was the right direction and one was the left. We walked to a direction but now I forgot if it was left or right. Next, we saw a gate. We opened it and walked in. In that room, there were many puzzle gates and places which we needed to decided to take one and continued. Again, we chose the wrong one…no more paths to walk. We tried several, but the result still kept the same. We moved back. My sister gave me a suggestion [Should we eat something first before we continue, I’m very tired.] Sure, I was also much tired, I agreed with her.

It was just like a joke; we found a café shop near there. Eh, why were there many people in that shop? I was doubt. Or there were ghost? Aww… was I trying to frighten myself? == The shop was dark, no enough bright and people were talking, drinking coffee, watching TV etc. My sister chose a table near the TV as she loved watching it. On that TV, there was a cupboard… it was big, could even keep people in. Meanwhile, coffee was served to us. During our relaxing time of drinking coffee, my sister said she felt strange of that cupboard. Without thinking of anyone mind, my sister stood up and stepped on the TV to check that cupboard. She called me urgently, [Come on sister! Come on Sister! I saw something strange!]. I quickly ran to there. I saw sunshine from that cupboard’s gate. It was bright…something like we are in our house, a bit dark and when we open our roof; we will see the sunshine go through the place we are in. My sister helped me to step into that cupboard. I reached a place and I tried to pull my sister up to the place I stood. Then, that cupboard’s gate closed. We both got another place. I tried to analyze it for where I was….until I got answer.

There was the top of mountain! [hahahhaha… I was laughing..... enjoyable!] I told my sister, [My dear sister, we got the top of mountain already. How clever you are! Love you!!!!] She smiled and accepted my appreciation. Haahaha… HAPPY! It was as the miracle that will occur only one among a thousand! It was the huge place, very modern with  restaurants & pools, guesthouses, hotels, schools, and hospitals…all constructions are as a high-tech city. I felt I even see the sea, the beach! Beach on the mountain??  I would be too tired until almost be crazy! But it was the fact! ==  I said to her and myself too that I decided not to move our living place more. We would live here forever if the flood still bothered our country. Only here we could escape from the flood and it was a wonderful place as well. I would find the job there to support the living and my sister, I said. We went to eat many foods…very delicious and cheap! Lol^^ After, I took my sister to find a guesthouse to live. We can’t live in hotel, no much money to pay.

When bad luck was over, the rest of it was only good luck!^^ We found a good room in guesthouse, it was a bit small if we compare to our house but it was comfortable enough for only two people. The house rent fee was reliable too. There was only one bedroom, about 3m square. If we open the door of our bedroom to go out, we will see our living room, about 3mx4m. No kitchen! I said, I would divide that living room and take a part to be the kitchen. I heard complain….from my sister? No no no….it was a man’s words! Who??! == I turned back… :O I saw him…the one I am going to marry with, just a short future time! Bong RAMY! Huhhhh, When+Why+How did he arrive my room? Thus, where is my sister? She disappeared!!!! I guessed, she would go to rent another room and keep this for me and Bong RAMY. Immediately, I recognized my sister’s reasons…there would be three reasons that pushed her to do so. First, she would like me and Bong RAMY to be closer! Good sister^^ Second, she hates messy room, don’t like lazy roommate…and that very clear as it was ME >< Third, if I and my sister are in bad condition, we always sharing our sad and help each other from all our ability…in contrast, if we are in a normal condition, let count…only more than 30 minutes, there will be the war! Very bad argument…but only words! We two are very good, very expert in using words to affect another emotion…we don’t like fighting by physical but metal is the first choice and always.

Move back to Bong RAMY, he said, how could we live in that too small room so? His face was so bad! - -? I replied, [let’s try first dear…we had no much wealth to support big room. We should start from the level we could according to our situation now. Moreover, it is not bad…it is acceptable…do you think so? Let’s believe me, we can live here and we would move if we are stronger than now!] He smiled and said [I followed you my dearest!] ^^” hahahahah…how so lovely this creature is! :P He is quick-anger but always turn to calm and sweet if there has my presence…lol! 
From that time toward, we starts the life on that Ta Mao mountain (when did that mountain develop to be such modern so? I wonder…) We got much fun and live exactly with happiness. Our condition moves up and up until the high level or high status in that local place… everything is extremely perfect… just as the imagination or miracle… Finally, I woke up!!! EVERYTHING WAS MY DREAM! hmmmm…. but that’s a memorized and adorable dream and may show me something that will appear in my future! I guess it would be "let's struggle the life but need to listen to my elderly ones, I would get the high position with treasures and happiness".

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