Love Plant

Couple…about one couple’s story…it seems interesting! No one knows if that happen to other people or not; however, it happens to a couple whom the wife is a bit young while the husband is a bit older… 21 VS 30 years old.

MARRIED, it means two persons agree to walk on the same way to the further future, spending time together to achieve goals, get success or overcome obstacles. Although, Married will come from only two sources, one is the Loved Married and another is Arranged Married. Many people believe that Loved Married leads couple to a happy and satisfied family while Arranged Married would not the good choice since it may causes the couple to have a distant relationship or no much care because they didn’t know each other well before their married or even didn’t know each other at all. Some said, for Arranged Married, if the both parties force themselves to accept, they would even divorce one day. How about if both parties agree to accept without forcing? Nothing impossible! Every single thing will occur from a start point.

The family who has daughters, parents will pay much concern on them as it is very important and seem the obligation of parents to prepare the future for their beloved children; especially the daughters. To this family also, parents have been discussing quite long time about their oldest daughter (21 years old) to have her own family. Then, the discussion moved to the final round while that family agreed to another family who has the oldest son (30 years old) for their oldest child to get married. That is both families’ insistence. Although, they still give the right to their child to consider. The decision is made in the case of the agreement from both families’ child. They both agree to respect their parents’ request. This is an Arranged Married which many countries; especially the Asian countries with ancient culture love judging their children’s future. The result of Arranged Married will always be different according to the couple. They would get a good future if they both strongly commit to have a good life and practice the best methods to get it.

Move Back, Both families want their children to get married in May after both children confirmed to accept this married in late March. But this decision is not successfully because both children want to take time to know each other before marrying. Their request was accepted and married delay to December instead. The a bit young lady with the a bit old guy begins to prepare themselves to get along with each other and make their relationship closer. From time to time, day to day, they both get closer and closer. They both are well at take care of each other, worry of each other and their plant of love start to grow up. Their love plant grows up very fast and very healthily. They spend sometime only with each other at weekend day, but they seem understand well of each sides. This couple catches up the good things, good behavior only to make their love plant to grow healthier. Finally, they both act to each other such really sweet and their real feeling always show in public even if they are in party with friends or family. They may think they don’t need to afraid of anything since they were already engaged and they have an exact plan of their wedding.

It becomes very funny about their story. It is not because they are good at get along with each other well in short time but it is funny while many of their relatives don’t believe that is the Arranged Married but they think this couple would love each other a few years ago already. They think both families of the lady and guy sides are trying to hide the fact. What are the reasons required to do that? Those relatives should not think so but should trust their own relatives more than this. Those relatives keep their eyes on watching this couple most of the time with the doubt in their head. A relative even asked directly to the young lady, the bride… [Could you tell me, is it real that you are in the arranged married?] The young lady had nothing to say without smiling and said YES. That relative tried to ask more and more, maybe for the reason to make that young lady to confess as they are in love but not the arranged one. That relative would need this answer…. Meanwhile, how can it happen while it is the arranged married for one hundred percentages? Not lose even a percentage! Lolz…

In short, LOVE can exist everywhere and every time according to both parties. How long or how short their love started, it is not really important. It’s much more necessary if that couple knows clearly what the love is, what they should always act for a growing love and what kind of environment or atmosphere should be offered. Thus, how deep of honest, responsibilities, take caring, respect each other, trust and understanding should be present in their daily life with the best method to maintenance their love, no doubt nor wonder more, they would get exactly sweet real love and happiness from their inner.

My Love Plant...always fresh n cool!

Countryside, Kompong Cham Province

Sunday, 30 October 2011 was the day of my cousin's son's birthday party that located in Kompong Cham Province. By the way to there, the views were quite nice to me... I'm not sure when that started...although, I do love visiting these kinds of landscapes...

on the left side of my grandma's house

This year, many provinces in Cambodia got disaster of flood; however, on the day I visited there, I saw the rice-plants there are starting to produce the rices....

I have been out and in several places... firstly, to visit by my father's side such as my grandma house, my cousins, my older aunt, my younger aunt...then we continues to the party house of my another cousins by my mom's side. In fact, my cousin's house is in Phnom Penh but he celebrated his son birthday party in Kompong Cham because it is his parents' need... my older uncle by my mum's side! lol...

On the way to Sre Veal, Srok Steng Trong, Kompong Cham province:

 

They look thin...

To the party, it's special...not because of the food or drinks but because of the present of my relatives...my beloved people! My aunt and my mother-in-law! ^^ They are so sweet to me; especially, my mother-in-law. She is very much trust and deep loving on me! It's my pleasure! lalala...

At about 3:15pm in the same day, we drove back home. To this trip, only my family (but no my sister since she was busy at work) and my fiance!

My little brother, Kosal

Ma style = =

My dad & that boy! lol

What does my bro gonna do? hahaha

This tall guy is my engaged-guy! ^^

Behind ma bro is ma beloved mom :*

In the Car! Similar?

My sister! She's at work...did not join our weekend days!

Mountain

While you guy see the word “mountain”, what kind of landscape would you imagine of?

Of course, mountain in our imagination would be the perfect one where is full of green color of the huge green field, trees, other plants, forest flowers and wild animals… right? That’s such a beautiful place to see and relax with family or friends. However, mountain is a place which could make us fear as well while there is very silent, we stay a lone and everything looks nonsense. That would give us the imagination of strangers, wild-creatures or even the ghost! Only one thing but it’s offering two far different views.

One day, in Phnom Penh, there was such a bad flood which made everything to sink from one to another one place. Many high building started to be shorter and shorter just because of the increasing of water’s level. By the way, I and my sister were trying to find a high place to stay and escaped from this disaster. I felt I knew my parents and little brother were already in a safe place, so only me and my sister needed to fight out. Both of us were walking in a silent street since most of the people moved to another place. I was thinking if I should stay in the highest building or what…discussing with my sister… [We should stay on the top of that hotel or on that bank???]. My sister said [It’s up to you, I would follow]. While we are the one who need to decide and it relates to another life, it’s much a heavy duty.

Further thinking, I thought we should not stay there since we would have no food to support our life. Then, I and my sister tried to find another safe place. We were riding motor and I saw many people go to a direction to province….I just followed. After a while, I saw a mountain and of course, the flood would arrived that place soon!!! How shocked I and Kunthear were!!! We decided to ride motor to the top of mountain. I saw an old man who was waiting in the middle distance of two gates for going up to the mountain. I asked why he didn’t escape from flood. He said it cannot affect him. I couldn’t talk more with him but just decided to start our machine of motor very strong to up mountain instead. 

That’s mountain would be the Ta Mao mountain but the view at that time seem not the same to the mountain I used to visit… looked sad and misery. By the way to up there, it was such a dark path and high-straight (plov choit/ plov chom noit)…we just tried our best to control our motor until the end, we reached the top! Was it lucky for us??? Oh, no…not at all... nonsense, more shock, more frightened I and my sister got.

On the top of that mountain was quite a small place where can only I, my sister and my motor stood on. There was no more space. How do you guy feel if you are on the top of a high place but you're hard to move, must be very careful or you will fall down? That was a deep scary feeling to us. I couldn’t even go back as it was too easily to get injure from that high path. I felt I and my sister would be able to live several days only for the most percentages since there was no food, no water, dangerous or even we would be eaten by any cruel animals such as eagle or snake. We got panic!!! Suddenly, the old man I met at the mountain gate appeared from that path…he said, [Okay my dear poor pity girls, followed me, I would take you all back to the safe one]. Nothing more I could decide but I and my sister just followed him. Fortunately, we arrived back our first place we met our old kind man. Million thanks to him for rescue us. I would give him even the amount of money or many kisses if he preferred; however, he didn’t. He may only follow his pure heart for helping other people without requiring the returns.  Our old man pointed us another gate and told us [Be smart and go by that way, then you both will reach the safest place of yours and be hurry or the flood would arrive in these short minutes]. We both bowed our head for thanks and high respectful to him with the eyes of almost crying. The feeling of excitement from his kindness and helpfulness we got.

We couldn’t spend more time, we both rushed to go through the way our old kind man pointed to. I’m not sure why at that time; I got much trust on him. I didn’t think it was dangerous as my previous path which I decided by myself. Our second path, it was big and easy to walk. We were walking for a while, then we saw two twin paths more, one was the right direction and one was the left. We walked to a direction but now I forgot if it was left or right. Next, we saw a gate. We opened it and walked in. In that room, there were many puzzle gates and places which we needed to decided to take one and continued. Again, we chose the wrong one…no more paths to walk. We tried several, but the result still kept the same. We moved back. My sister gave me a suggestion [Should we eat something first before we continue, I’m very tired.] Sure, I was also much tired, I agreed with her.

It was just like a joke; we found a café shop near there. Eh, why were there many people in that shop? I was doubt. Or there were ghost? Aww… was I trying to frighten myself? == The shop was dark, no enough bright and people were talking, drinking coffee, watching TV etc. My sister chose a table near the TV as she loved watching it. On that TV, there was a cupboard… it was big, could even keep people in. Meanwhile, coffee was served to us. During our relaxing time of drinking coffee, my sister said she felt strange of that cupboard. Without thinking of anyone mind, my sister stood up and stepped on the TV to check that cupboard. She called me urgently, [Come on sister! Come on Sister! I saw something strange!]. I quickly ran to there. I saw sunshine from that cupboard’s gate. It was bright…something like we are in our house, a bit dark and when we open our roof; we will see the sunshine go through the place we are in. My sister helped me to step into that cupboard. I reached a place and I tried to pull my sister up to the place I stood. Then, that cupboard’s gate closed. We both got another place. I tried to analyze it for where I was….until I got answer.

There was the top of mountain! [hahahhaha… I was laughing..... enjoyable!] I told my sister, [My dear sister, we got the top of mountain already. How clever you are! Love you!!!!] She smiled and accepted my appreciation. Haahaha… HAPPY! It was as the miracle that will occur only one among a thousand! It was the huge place, very modern with  restaurants & pools, guesthouses, hotels, schools, and hospitals…all constructions are as a high-tech city. I felt I even see the sea, the beach! Beach on the mountain??  I would be too tired until almost be crazy! But it was the fact! ==  I said to her and myself too that I decided not to move our living place more. We would live here forever if the flood still bothered our country. Only here we could escape from the flood and it was a wonderful place as well. I would find the job there to support the living and my sister, I said. We went to eat many foods…very delicious and cheap! Lol^^ After, I took my sister to find a guesthouse to live. We can’t live in hotel, no much money to pay.

When bad luck was over, the rest of it was only good luck!^^ We found a good room in guesthouse, it was a bit small if we compare to our house but it was comfortable enough for only two people. The house rent fee was reliable too. There was only one bedroom, about 3m square. If we open the door of our bedroom to go out, we will see our living room, about 3mx4m. No kitchen! I said, I would divide that living room and take a part to be the kitchen. I heard complain….from my sister? No no no….it was a man’s words! Who??! == I turned back… :O I saw him…the one I am going to marry with, just a short future time! Bong RAMY! Huhhhh, When+Why+How did he arrive my room? Thus, where is my sister? She disappeared!!!! I guessed, she would go to rent another room and keep this for me and Bong RAMY. Immediately, I recognized my sister’s reasons…there would be three reasons that pushed her to do so. First, she would like me and Bong RAMY to be closer! Good sister^^ Second, she hates messy room, don’t like lazy roommate…and that very clear as it was ME >< Third, if I and my sister are in bad condition, we always sharing our sad and help each other from all our ability…in contrast, if we are in a normal condition, let count…only more than 30 minutes, there will be the war! Very bad argument…but only words! We two are very good, very expert in using words to affect another emotion…we don’t like fighting by physical but metal is the first choice and always.

Move back to Bong RAMY, he said, how could we live in that too small room so? His face was so bad! - -? I replied, [let’s try first dear…we had no much wealth to support big room. We should start from the level we could according to our situation now. Moreover, it is not bad…it is acceptable…do you think so? Let’s believe me, we can live here and we would move if we are stronger than now!] He smiled and said [I followed you my dearest!] ^^” hahahahah…how so lovely this creature is! :P He is quick-anger but always turn to calm and sweet if there has my presence…lol! 

From that time toward, we starts the life on that Ta Mao mountain (when did that mountain develop to be such modern so? I wonder…) We got much fun and live exactly with happiness. Our condition moves up and up until the high level or high status in that local place… everything is extremely perfect… just as the imagination or miracle… Finally, I woke up!!! EVERYTHING WAS MY DREAM! hmmmm…. but that’s a memorized and adorable dream and may show me something that will appear in my future! I guess it would be "let's struggle the life but need to listen to my elderly ones, I would get the high position with treasures and happiness".

Bad Work Performance =_="

Recently, I have done several mistakes at my work place. Surely, I have really bad feeling!
One day, I have joined an event and got a gift from that event. I considered it is mind. When I came back to company, I kept it nicely at my table but I forgot to take it to home so the next day it was disappeared. At that time, I was very angry for someone who took my possession. Then I recognized, that was one of powerful people in my company. I was so stubborn. I try to take it back but I still cannot get it. Now I became calmer than that time so I really wonder why I need to take it back? I should not so. It's just a small case, I should not make it bigger. If it's lost, just forget it so it will nothing, right?

Another case, I never respond on internet payment but I was sometime told to pay it instead of accountants. Last month, no one told me to pay and I'm so stupid because I also forget to ask them. Finally, I was blamed because the internet at office was temperately disconnect as no one pay its fee. Yeah, I was blamed for this case even I never appointed that I am the responsible person of it. However, from that time I have another one responsibility.

One more, every morning I always check my company mail before do any other things but how was my morning today??? I forgot! I forgot to check mail! and the problem arrived for my careless today. Other days, my boss rarely reply my report but today he replied. Why I just be aware in the afternoon that he replied? Meanwhile, I forgot to claim for money to refill in phone as well. Just one word I can say to myself now "Poor performance!"

My beloved teachers!

There are a lot of definitions of LOVE. It can be the love for family, siblings or relatives, friends, teachers, between man and woman or even the love to the nature and so on. Do not go further, right? Of course, from the past to now, I keep four teachers in my memory and I won't forget! I'm sure!^^

My first beloved teacher name CCDR! He is the very handsome lecturer as I know! haha... He is tall, have a big body, attractive face and very suit to his glasses. He has the high knowledge, graduated from Malaysia University with the scholarship. In the class, he always create a lot of activities for students to practice, good teaching planing! I got a lot of knowledge from his courses. However, that is what I see from him, I feel he is a good man even I just see him by my side, never get closer with him! :D One more thing, I don't know clearly the reasons of that case. I wonder why I learn with him several terms already but he still not remember my name? not remember my face? =_=

My second beloved teacher name Henry! He is Myanmar! As he told the students, he live in Cambodia over 20 years already and he seems not get along well with Cambodia. So why I love him? easy to explain! because I also don't know the reason! but what I know is that I love him! haha... He is an old man, over 60 years old but he seems really kind and good at teaching as well. Of course, challenging is what he always perform with students. I love him as grandpa! ;)

My third beloved teacher name Than Chan CN. My law teacher! Good, yeah good teacher! Good at explanation, good at giving examples or case studies and good at giving very difficult exams @_@; but that is the way I got much knowledge from Law subjects. He is fat but tall, have the smiling face! Just see him, offers good feeling... One case that I don't like him! Why, why all the time I asked him, he not understand my questions? why then just my friend repeats my questions, he can catch it? hmmm.... and why I ask him, he not let me to ask immediately but just wait? That's it!

The last one, my cute and beautiful teacher whom name Davy! Yeah, she's really beautiful and younger than her age as well. I remembered the first time she entered the class, the students called her to sit next to him! lolz.... She is a bit tall, slim and her face is not as Cambodia but like other races. Her styles of teaching is very similar to my first beloved teacher. A lot of works or tasks I need to complete !~.~! The final words I want to give her is that I love her! Good and beautiful one!

High School exam's result of my Sister!

That had been my family pleasure and especially my sister...my younger sister, 18 years old with her result that just shown yesterday Friday 20-08-2010.

She's very happy with her exam of grade 12, she got grade C with a high score^^ If we compare, it would be grade C+ but how can? High school result has only A, B, C...no B+ nor C+...

For the main subjects, Khmer Literature: grade C, Maths: grade B, Physic: grad B, Chemistry: grade B but Biography only grade D, haha... however, I also feel glade to hear so! Wish her more success for other tasks! Love her!

My first comment!

That is my first time to edit this profile. First time to post! I'm not sure what does blog use with... However, I then consider here as a notebook that I will always write down what I am happy or sad with. I would keep here as the warehouse, the place to stock the stories of my real feeling of up and down, disappointed or excited, also many other feeling...