Tuesday, July 31, 2018

You can't buy Employee Loyalty; You must EARN it

By: Brigette Hyacinth
Author: The Future of Leadership: Rise of Automation, Robotics and Artificial Intelligence 🔹 Keynote Speaker 🔹


According to research conducted by Gallup, 75% of workers who voluntarily left their jobs did so because of their bosses and not the position itself. When employees feel disconnected, undervalued, and unappreciated, it doesn’t take long for them to jump ship and look for another job that will recognize their contributions. Often poor management lies at the heart of an employee’s departure. Employees are loyal to their boss before they are to the organization. In the end, people don't quit their jobs. They quit their bosses.
Many managers think that employees are automatically loyal just because they’re getting a regular paycheck. The truth is loyalty isn’t for sale. Loyalty has to be earned. All the money, perks or well-structured team building exercises, will not retain employees if you keep treating them poorly. If your company has high employee turnover, maybe it's time to look in the mirror.

Train people well enough so they can leave, treat them well enough so they don't want to. - Richard Branson

To increase Employee Loyalty- A Greater Focus must be placed on how you Treat your Employees:

* Don’t treat employees like machines – Employees want to know that their employer understands the need for a work/life balance and respects their personal time.
* Create opportunities for growth and development – Always make sure there are ways your employees can grow and can do work that inspires them.
* Recognize Employees' efforts and accomplishments - Everyone wants to feel appreciated. Frequent sincere recognition keeps your team engaged and productive.
* Don't micromanage - Trust employees. Give them autonomy and breathing space to get their work done.
* Provide adequate training and support. Training demonstrates a company’s commitment to employees in terms of personal and professional growth.
* Show Empathy. Show that you care. Very few bosses show empathy towards their team members and this helps improve overall team morale and performance.
* Open Communication - Communicate often with employees and welcome feedback. Listening and acting on employees viewpoints demonstrates that you value their opinion.

ERIC sent me this: "I actually received a phone call saying my wife was on the way to the hospital and my district manager. was with me and when I informed him that I was leaving he asked me to give him 5 more minutes. That moment I lost all respect for him and I am actively looking for a new job after 17 years of loyalty."

Employees are the backbone of any organization. In the end, people make companies successful. Any strategy or business plan relies on motivated and engaged people to make it happen! This is why the most successful companies focus on people and relationships, and make sure both are not just managed but lead and cared for as good as humanly possible. Happy employees are always willing to do more; they will go to great lengths to help the company grow.

Loyalty is a two-way street. If you want employee loyalty, you must first give it. Employees spend half of their lives at work. They are not asking for much. Employees want to work in an environment where they are valued. Sometimes it's the little things that you do, that counts the most. A little respect and empathy goes a long way. If you want to get the best out of your employees - Treat them well.


Thursday, July 26, 2018

A promise is about to be a wind...

He promised to give me some special packet for my achievement and I decided to join with him. This is about my new career!

Until now, 45 days I have been in this new world. I noticed my paid had no that packet included and I questioned him.
He kept silent…
I refollowed up…
He told me he would talk face to face with me…
But he still kept silent…
So I talked to him first…
He said that’s sensitive,
We should talk in meeting room!

Nevertheless, I didn’t care but I still raised it up which was indirectly forced him to answer me.
He told me he didn’t prepare it yet but only in draft (and seems a draft after I reacted!). I was damn surprised to hear his words!!!! I looked at him with empty eyes I could imagine myself…
He was trying to calm me and of course, I did try to calm myself best of the best too. He promised again that he would raise it up to the head of department for approval and it may take time.
This was his confession!
What if the head of department rejects this proposal?
Why did he offer me if he didn’t do anything at all?
And if I didn’t ask and kept silent, would this encouraging packet become just nothing?
Then, his promise is about to be a wind…

I’m looking to see his action in further as he promised this second time. He said he would do it next week.
The amount of encouraging packet isn’t much at all, very less one and my problem here isn’t all about the money but TRUST! I trust him, I believe in his words and right now, I started feeling like I was cheated…
He chose me to be his subordinate from many candidates, I do appreciate that and at the same time, I also chose him to be my superior! I didn’t get only his offer. Well, no uses to talk about those offers since I already rejected all in order to be here. I wish my choice this time won’t go wrong again!

I’m so frustrated at the recently,
I’m feeling silly,
I feel empty,
I don’t wanna see him,
Yet, he re-promised to process next week,
So all I can do, is to be calm and let’s see how is it?!

I hope he won’t make me feel regret to choose him as my boss… I hope and I wish! :(




Wednesday, July 25, 2018

Drama: Turn my pains into Strength

I used to be treated unfairly, badly by a group of people; while I was at a foreign company.
They laughed at me just because I am different (I have kid’s voice, an elephant’s shape but cat walk. I was born with them).
They knew I love abroad and I searched a lot about it, I could share what I’ve learnt but I’ve never once been there… So, they mocked me, looked down on me just because I’m poor… I got mentally injure!
YET, I didn’t revenge even I knew the ways… And that was a waste of time to be surrounded by those gangs… I just left them alone and moved on. I believe I would have a bright future, not comparing to them but to my previous me…
I motivated myself, I also got such warm care from my closed people and healed all the pains…
And of course, I don’t mind them, if they talk to me, I would talk to them… If they smile to me, I would do the same or if they act as never know me, we can be the totally strangers! :)
This is my real experience to share…
1-Don’t expect the wolfs not to bite us just because we don’t bite them…
2-Don’t compare ourselves to other; we have been through different stories… If we’re better than our past, that is appreciation!
3-Never allow other to control our happiness, that is ours and we own it…
4-We are not a tree, if we are not happy, let’s move!
Thanks to those people, they unintentionally became the reason to build me stronger!
#20180726


ខ្ញុំធ្លាប់ត្រូវមនុស្សមួយក្រុមធ្វើបាបកាលពីខ្ញុំបំរើការងារឲ្យក្រុមហ៊ុនបរទេសមួយ។
ពួកគេសើចចំអកឲ្យខ្ញុំពីព្រោះតែខ្ញុំខុសគេ (ខ្ញុំមានសំលេងដូចកូនក្មេង រាងដូចដំរី ប៉ុន្តែដើរកាច់រាង។ ធម្មជាតិផ្តល់ឲ្យខ្ញុំបែបនេះ)។
ពួកគេដឹងថាខ្ញុំស្រលាញ់បរទេសហើយខ្ញុំស្រាវជ្រាវច្រើន ដូចច្នេះខ្ញុំអាចចែករំលែកអ្វីដែលខ្ញុំដឹងពីការស្រាវជ្រាវ ប៉ុន្តែខ្ញុំមិនដែលទៅទីនោះសោះ ដូចច្នេះពួកគេធ្វើត្រាប់ ចំអកឲ្យខ្ញុំក៏ព្រោះតែខ្ញុំមិនសំបូរធនធាន ខ្ញុំបានរងរបួសផ្លូវចិត្ត។
ប៉ុន្តែ ខ្ញុំមិនជ្រើសយកការសងសឹក ទោះខ្ញុំដឹងថាគួរធ្វើបែបណា ហើយវាជាការខ្ជះខ្ជាយពេលវេលាដែលចំណាយនៅជាមួយពួកគេ ខ្ញុំទុកឲ្យពួកគេនៅតែគេហើយខ្ញុំក៏ចាកចេញ។ ខ្ញុំជឿជាក់ថាខ្ញុំនិងមានអនាគតភ្លឺស្វាង ប៉ុន្តែមិនមែនទៅប្រៀបធៀបនិងពួកគេទេ គឺប្រៀបធៀបទៅនិងខ្ញុំពីអតីតកាល។
ខ្ញុំលើកទឹកចិត្តខ្លួនឯង ខ្ញុំក៏ទទួលបានការយកចិត្តទុកដាក់ដ៏កក់ក្តៅពីមនុស្សជិតស្និទ្ធរបស់ខ្ញុំ ដែលធ្វើឲ្យរបួសទាំងអស់ជាសះស្បើយ។
ហើយពិតណាស់ ខ្ញុំមិនប្រកាន់ពួកគេទេ បើពួកគេនិយាយរកខ្ញុំ ខ្ញុំនិងឆ្លើយតប បើពួកគេញញឺមដាក់ខ្ញុំ ខ្ញុំនិងញញឹមតបវិញ ឫមួយក៏បើពួកគេធ្វើដូចមិនស្គាល់ខ្ញុំ យើងអាចក្លាយជាអ្នកដទៃយ៉ាងពេញលេញ!
ទាំងនេះជាបទពិសោធន៍ជាក់ស្តែងរបស់ខ្ញុំដើម្បីចែករំលែក
-កុំរពឹងថាចចកនិងមិនខាំយើង ព្រោះតែយើងមិនខាំវា។
-កុំប្រៀបធៀបខ្លួនឯងទៅនឹងអ្នកដទៃ ពួកយើងឆ្លងកាត់ខ្សែជីវិតផ្សេងគ្នា ប្រសិនបើយើងរីកចំរើនប្រសើរជាងយើងពីអតីតកាល នេះគឺជាអ្វីគួរឲ្យកោតសរសើរ។
-កុំបណ្តោយឲ្យអ្នកដទៃមកគ្រប់គ្រងក្តីសុខរបស់យើង វាជាក្តីសុខរបស់យើង យើងជាម្ចាស់គ្រប់គ្រងវា។
-យើងមិនមែនជាដើមឈើ បើមិនសប្បាយចិត្ត ត្រូវតែផ្លាស់ប្តូរកន្លែង។

អរគុណដល់មនុស្សមួយក្រុមនោះ ពួកគេគឺជាហេតុផលដែលធ្វើឲ្យខ្ញុំរឹងមាំជាងមុន!


Tuesday, July 24, 2018

“Ohhhhhhh”!

I am talking with my colleagues and face my back to another group’s talking. After I end my discussion, I turn back to my position and face to that group. Immediately, someone shouts at me…

“Ohhhhhhh”, an elder brother looks at me big eyes surprisingly!

I’m shocked and ask: “What’s wrong brother??” 0__0?
This elder brother still opens eyes big with his finger points to his own lips… “Your lips, Rella!”
Me: “Why?? @_@’
Elder brother: “Errr… you look…cute!” (he is responding softly and shy.)
Me: “Ahhh…. Hehehe…” (I’m chuckling, maybe coz my lipstick today is so bright- I’m in bright bold pink color)

My appearance has really changed… And all the new people I just knew lately, they believe this is my real me but I’m actually not… lol

I before was black, curly hair but slim…
And now I am having such so white face, white skin, straight hair but 70kg…
Even I tell them my white skin got from lotion and many beauty products, they seem just ignore… and saying me a birth beauty!

This is the result of my commitment to change my appearance… A big clap to myself! Yehhhh!!
Plan A on beauty is going quite well until now; from 1 year using many beauty products…
Plan B on beauty is on track to proceed, to lose weight from 10kg to 15kg…
More to go!
Bikini and trip is calling!

I encourage myself by telling own self that if I cannot get success in career for being the management, let’s being the junior level but a beautiful, a quite beautiful junior employee!
“A beautiful” that I refer to is that the one who has nice appearance, not the best nor the modeling criteria but the one who look attractive enough to get attention but more than the appearance, I train myself to be quite beautiful from my inner beauty. “A beautiful” is both having nice outside and indescribably nicely inside!

Outside beauty is way easier to fix; yet the inside beauty has to take time…
I’m saying so, it doesn’t mean I was the bitch before but I was nice in way to hurt myself…
Hence, right now, I must be nice but way to give prosperity to myself and…also other!
I’m training myself from many different resources and I hope I could become someone who my peers would think of when they are in tough conditions, I want to be a helpful to them. Regardless to wealth or treasures (since I don’t have any to lend my peers ^^”), I dream of being the one who could encourage the one who needs my consultation! I would listen to them, give them suggestion, inspire them and I dream to be the most comfortable person for everyone to talk to!

I believe, by giving other happiness and peace mind is way to live together healthily and if I could help other, mean that I also could help myself to gain more and more happiness.

Last but not least, my consultation is free of charge! Lol
And happiness is #FREE as well! ~HEART~

Thursday, July 19, 2018

She saw him again



He comes and hugs her tight,
He says sorry, he feels guilty,
They are alike crying babies,
They console each other and she agrees to lets the past be…

They share each one of what happens in their lives,
They laugh and they feel shy,
They seem a new relationship guys,
But they strangely don’t have even a fight.

Though, she remembers he was married,
And he also has few kids,
He stares at her and strongly denies,
He smiles and claims she is his only bride.

He boasts he is rich now,
He bought a car,
He bought a villa,
He guarantees to make her live comfortably.

Their romance re-grow,
They show and share love passionately,
They completely ignore all that matters,
They treat right now as only their world!

She is so stupid, she surely knows she is also married,
But she still jumps in that relationship,
What’s a bitch?
What’s a gross bitch!

He is even more disgusting,
He knows she isn’t single,
And he still is willing to take her all,
What’s a son of witch he's deserved to be called!

Yeah… she saw him again, he kept appearing in her dreams,
It has been 9 years exactly,
That they already ended, they already broke,
What’s a joke! Why the hell did he still appear in her head?

Yet, she has nothing to do with,
It’s just a shitty dream,
During this long years, she doesn’t even once ever see him,
Her reality is pure and it was just a shitty dream!!!

Tuesday, July 17, 2018

Illusionary Days to Rella


ទីងៗ ទីងៗ

ភ្លើងចរាចរណ៏សំរាប់អ្នកដំណើរថ្មើរជើងកំពុងតែស្ថិតក្នុងភ្លើងបៃតង​ រេឡារត់ត្រហេបត្រហបឆ្លងផ្លូវខ្លាចខកខានមិនទាន់ ដែលកំពុងស្ពាយកាតាបសាក់កាដូពណ៍ផ្ទៃមេឃបែកប្រផេះ ដៃម្ខាងកាន់អាវធំពណ៍ផ្កាឈូកខ្ចី និងដៃម្ខាងទៀតកាន់ខ្នើយពណ៍លឿងទុំស្រស់រូបក្បាលតុក្កតាកូនឆ្កែស្នូបភី (Snoopy)។ ជាមួយមុខសស្រស់ សក់ក្រាស់វែងទំលាក់ដល់ចង្កេះតែមិនរញ៉េរញ៉ៃ សក់មុខរៀបចំសមរម្យអាចឲ្យឃើញមុខបានច្បាស់ ចិញ្ចើមគូសខ្វង់ បបូរមាត់ពណ៍ទឹកក្រូចស្រាល ពាក់អាវកតាំងពណ៍ស ខោខ្មៅគូថវែងនិងស្បែកជើងពណ៍ទឹកក្រូចដូចបបូរមាត់ រេឡាមើលទៅរាងស្រស់បន្តិចដែរ។

ដើរតំរង់ក្លោងទ្វារក្រុមហ៊ុន មានបុគ្គលិកម្នាក់ឃើញរេឡាពីចំងាយ គាត់មើលនាងដោយប្រយោលស្របពេលគាត់ឡើងជណ្តើរ ក៏ជំពប់ជើងប៉ិះនិងដួល។ រេឡាធ្វើជាមិនចាប់អារម្មណ៍តែក៏បានញញឹមដាក់បងប្រុសម្នាក់នោះបន្តិចជាការគួរសមព្រោះជាបុគ្គលិកស្គាល់គ្នា ដែលបែបនេះបែរជាធ្វើឲ្យគាត់សើចស្ទាក់ស្ទើររាងអៀនហើយក៏ឡើងជណ្តើរជើងជំនួសជណ្តើរយន្តទៅបាត់។
កំពុងធ្វើការ មានឯកសារតំរូវធ្វើឡើងវិញ រេឡាបានខលប្រាប់ហើយបុគ្គលិកនោះក៏យកឯកសារមកឲ្យម្តងទៀតតែរេឡាមិននៅ  ដូចច្នេះបុគ្គលិកផ្សេងទៀតព្រមទទួលឯកសារជំនួសរេឡា តែបុគ្គលិកម្នាក់នោះមិនព្រមឡើយ ចាំរហូតទាល់តែជួបរេឡា។ គ្រប់គ្នាគិតថាគាត់ប្រហែលមានការសំខាន់អីត្រូវនិយាយជាមួយរេឡា តែតាមពិតគ្មានទេ បុគ្គលិកម្នាក់នោះគ្រាន់តែចាំរេឡា ហុចឯកសារឲ្យនាងហើយញញឹមញញែម ក៏ចេញទៅបាត់ទៅ។ ហេហេហេហេ!
ល្ងាចបន្តិច​ បងប្រុសផ្នែកបង្វឹកការងារ ចូលមកប្រកាសប្រាប់បុគ្គលិកឲ្យកុំភ្លេចទៅចូលរៀន​ គាត់មើលរេឡារាងភ្ញាក់បន្កិចហើយក៏ដើរចេញទៅ។ រេឡាទទួលអារម្មណ៍ថាគាត់និងងាកមុខមកមើលនាងម្តងទៀត ពិតប្រាកដមែន គាត់ក៏ងាកមកមើលនាងម្តងទៀតមែនដែលធ្វើឲ្យរេឡាសើចស្ញាញព្រោះវាដូចអ្វីដែលនាងបានគិត តែការដែលនាងសើចបែបនេះបែរជាធ្វើឲ្យបងប្រុសផ្នែកបង្វឹកការងារគិតថានាងសើចដាក់ ក៏សើចស្រស់មករកនាងវិញ។

ថ្ងៃបន្ទាប់ កំពុងឈរចាំជណ្តើរយន្ត តីងៗ ជណ្តើរយន្តបើកភ្លាម បុគ្គលិកដែលឈរចាំដែរនាំគ្នាប្រញាប់ដើរចូល រេឡាក៏ទុកឲ្យគេទៅមុនព្រោះគិតថាពេញទៅហើយ បុន្តែបុគ្គលិកម្នាក់ញញឹមហៅនាងចូលម្នាក់ទៀត។ រេឡាក៏ដើរចូល ដែលបុគ្គលិកម្នាក់នោះក៏និយាយតិចៗតែម្នាក់ឯងថា ឲ្យតែឃើញស្រីស្អាតឈរចាំជណ្តើរយន្ត ចេះតែអាណិត ហេហេហេ (គាត់សើច)។ ចៃដន្យមានបុរសម្នាក់ទៀតលឺ ក៏ឆ្លើយឆ្លងថា គេស្អាតគេមានម្ចាស់ចិត្តបាត់ទៅហើយ! បុរសមុខញញឹមក៏បន្តថាមានម្ចាស់ចិត្តគឺមាននៅផ្ទះ នៅផ្ទះរបស់គេ នៅក្រៅរបស់យើង (ហើយគាត់ក៏ដៀងភ្នែកមើលរេឡា ---ញញឹមទៀតហើយ---)។
រេឡាកំពុងរត់ឡើងជណ្តើរក៏ពើបនិងបុគ្គលិកម្នាក់ទៀត គាត់និយាយមកកាន់រេឡាថា អេ! ជួបគ្នាទៀតហើយ! (ជាមួយទឹកមុខប្រឹមប្រៃ)។ រេឡាកំពុងរកនឹកថាជួបគ្នានៅឯណា ក៏នឹកឃើញថាបានជួបគ្នានាពេលឈប់ម៉ូតូចាំស្តុបឆ្លងផ្លូវ! កាលពេលឈប់ចាំស្តុប រេឡាគិតថាប្រហែលជាគាត់ច្រឡំមនុស្ស តែដោយគាត់សើចដាក់នាងទៅហើយ នាងក៏សើចដាក់វិញតិចៗ។ តាមពិតទៅគឺគាត់ប្រហែលស្គាល់នាងតាមរយះការណែនាំពីក្រុមរបស់នាង ថានាងជាបុគ្គលិកថ្មី។
បើបងប្រុសម្នាក់នោះវិញនិយាយថា រេឡាឆាមម៉ីង (Charming) ព្រោះពេលនាងនិយាយម្តងៗ សំលេងគួរឲ្យចង់ស្តាប់ មុខញញឹមស្រស់ថែមទាំងថ្ពាល់ខួចទៀតផង ទាក់ទាញ!

អ្នកទាំងអស់គ្នាហាក់ស្វាគមន៏រេឡាដោយរួសរាយរាក់ទាក់ ពួកគេហាក់ចូលចិត្តមើលនាង តែមិនដឹងចូលចិត្តមើលនាងដោយយល់ថានាងស្អាត រឺយល់ថានាងចម្លែកទេ ព្រោះនាងគឺ70គីឡូក្រាម! មើលទៅមិនមែនធាត់លំៗទេ! ហាហាហា

Sunday, July 15, 2018

Stunning Myanmar

Myanmar, I had no idea about this country at all previously. Yet, I recently saw many stunning images about this country and it attracted my attention so much...












This is March 26, 2025 in my country…

I can’t believe I often come back to my blog diary most of the time because of disappointment, painful soul, broken heart and I want to shou...