Couple…about one couple’s story…it seems interesting! No one knows if that happen to other people or not; however, it happens to a couple whom the wife is a bit young while the husband is a bit older… 21 VS 30 years old.
MARRIED, it means two persons agree to walk on the same way to the further future, spending time together to achieve goals, get success or overcome obstacles. Although, Married will come from only two sources, one is the Loved Married and another is Arranged Married. Many people believe that Loved Married leads couple to a happy and satisfied family while Arranged Married would not the good choice since it may causes the couple to have a distant relationship or no much care because they didn’t know each other well before their married or even didn’t know each other at all. Some said, for Arranged Married, if the both parties force themselves to accept, they would even divorce one day. How about if both parties agree to accept without forcing? Nothing impossible! Every single thing will occur from a start point.
The family who has daughters, parents will pay much concern on them as it is very important and seem the obligation of parents to prepare the future for their beloved children; especially the daughters. To this family also, parents have been discussing quite long time about their oldest daughter (21 years old) to have her own family. Then, the discussion moved to the final round while that family agreed to another family who has the oldest son (30 years old) for their oldest child to get married. That is both families’ insistence. Although, they still give the right to their child to consider. The decision is made in the case of the agreement from both families’ child. They both agree to respect their parents’ request. This is an Arranged Married which many countries; especially the Asian countries with ancient culture love judging their children’s future. The result of Arranged Married will always be different according to the couple. They would get a good future if they both strongly commit to have a good life and practice the best methods to get it.
Move Back, Both families want their children to get married in May after both children confirmed to accept this married in late March. But this decision is not successfully because both children want to take time to know each other before marrying. Their request was accepted and married delay to December instead. The a bit young lady with the a bit old guy begins to prepare themselves to get along with each other and make their relationship closer. From time to time, day to day, they both get closer and closer. They both are well at take care of each other, worry of each other and their plant of love start to grow up. Their love plant grows up very fast and very healthily. They spend sometime only with each other at weekend day, but they seem understand well of each sides. This couple catches up the good things, good behavior only to make their love plant to grow healthier. Finally, they both act to each other such really sweet and their real feeling always show in public even if they are in party with friends or family. They may think they don’t need to afraid of anything since they were already engaged and they have an exact plan of their wedding.
It becomes very funny about their story. It is not because they are good at get along with each other well in short time but it is funny while many of their relatives don’t believe that is the Arranged Married but they think this couple would love each other a few years ago already. They think both families of the lady and guy sides are trying to hide the fact. What are the reasons required to do that? Those relatives should not think so but should trust their own relatives more than this. Those relatives keep their eyes on watching this couple most of the time with the doubt in their head. A relative even asked directly to the young lady, the bride… [Could you tell me, is it real that you are in the arranged married?] The young lady had nothing to say without smiling and said YES. That relative tried to ask more and more, maybe for the reason to make that young lady to confess as they are in love but not the arranged one. That relative would need this answer…. Meanwhile, how can it happen while it is the arranged married for one hundred percentages? Not lose even a percentage! Lolz…
In short, LOVE can exist everywhere and every time according to both parties. How long or how short their love started, it is not really important. It’s much more necessary if that couple knows clearly what the love is, what they should always act for a growing love and what kind of environment or atmosphere should be offered. Thus, how deep of honest, responsibilities, take caring, respect each other, trust and understanding should be present in their daily life with the best method to maintenance their love, no doubt nor wonder more, they would get exactly sweet real love and happiness from their inner.
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