How you treat others is exactly how they will treat you

A long time ago in China, a girl named Li-Li got married & went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn’t get along with her mother-in-law at all. Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother-in-law’s habits. In addition, she criticized Li-Li constantly.

Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting. But what made the situation even worse was that, according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li’s poor husband great distress. Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law’s bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it! Li-Li went to see her father’s good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs. She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all. Mr. Huang thought for awhile, and finally said, ‘Li-Li, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you.’ Li-Li said, ‘Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to do ‘Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package of herbs. He told Li-Li, ‘You can’t use a quick-acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving. Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspects you, when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. ‘Don’t argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen.’ Li-Li was so happy. She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law.
Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other days, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper! , obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother. After six months had passed, the whole household had changed.. Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost never got mad or upset. She hadn’t had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with. The mother-in-law’s attitude toward Li-Li changed, and she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in-law one could ever find. Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter. Li-Li’s husband was very happy to see what was happening.
 
One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again She said, ‘Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison from killing my mother-in-law. She’s changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her.’ Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. ‘Li-Li, there’s nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her.’

HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you?
We don’t expect the World to change. But if we changed ourselves, we will change the World. 

Reference: http://www.kerals.com/comedy/how-you-treat-others-is-exactly-how-they-will-treat-you/

Parents' Love

An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window...

The Father asked his Son, “What is this?”

The Son replied “It is a crow”.

After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, “What is this?”

The Son said “Father, I have just now told you “It’s a crow”.

After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, What is this?”

At this time some expression of irritation was felt in the Son’s tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. “It’s a crow, a crow”.

A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time, “What is this?”

This time the Son shouted at his Father, “Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times ‘IT IS A CROW’. Are you not able to understand this?”

 A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary :

“Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated, I rather felt affection for my innocent child”.

While the little child asked him 23 times “What is this”, the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.

So...

If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents. From today, let's say this aloud, “I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child, they have always showered their selfless love on me. They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today”. Then there's nothing else could be returned beside showing our love, care and be warm to them!!!

From 0% till 99.99% for her!

I met a girl..a girl whom make me so interested! I remembered while I first joined ma current working place, there was a trip to the seaside and then there’s a Christmas party, I saw her…that’s the girl that made me fall in her beauty… I love her body shape, her face and her modeling clothes…but in a positive way only.. I’m not lesbian! Hehehe… If you see my outlook, it would be defined as a common girl…though; my real favorite is a sexy one! ^^

January 2011 started… I almost can’t believe my ears that heard she would join the same company as me…and it would be on 17^th January…was waiting to see her…That day came…she arrived with a lovely uniform, a cute made-up face with her eyebrows, cool eyeliners, pinky cheek and yeah..de sweet silky lip…so adorable as a doll! Although, I almost couldn’t hide my chuckling of her cute shirt..hehehe…just alike high school girl…ohhh no…that was kinda shirt I wore in my primary school! Wahhahahaa!!! 
Emmmm… at that time, I thought she can’t usually keep make up much so coz most of staff here just did a light make-up and this happened as my thinking! A few months later, she changed to dress professionally with some make up only. Maybe she’s shy to be so bright among other… or maybe she’s wanna feel free from being so tired with her job… or she knew she’s already pretty even without those kinda cosmetic stuff… Or she didn’t wanna be that modeling among that ugly team…hahaha…kidding!!! I’m not ugly, just pretty in the way I am^^

Actually, I always kept eyes watching her secretly while always committed for not to get closer to her either..must not!!! Because she’s not in my type..cannot get along with her outlook of fashionable while I’m not at all. More, she’s a relative to my boss..nahhh…how come? I hate hearing someone said I have intention or wanna get benefits by trying to go closer with them… I seem simply but not really uncomplicated… lol… Nevertheless, my commitment was failed…no matter how much I tried, I still got closer to her from day to day… 2 years later, she became my best friend in my soul..just I never said it out…Time moved very fast.. I got married… I got a baby boy now and she with me just get so much closer.. I really love her… not only her appearance but the way she really is… she’s funny, easy going, kind, understanding, romanticism and honest, especially her best ability to maintain my trust! Whatever I told her, those never be spreaded… she’s the best warehouse to contain my stories..lol…everything of mine...both happiness and reality of my sad life were sharing to her nonstop while I would get back of her help, her advice and the warm encouragement…how could I describe her? She seems an angel to me..only see her very positively! She seems the expected treasure I got accidently! However, it doesn’t mean she’s 100% good…she’s so stubborn, especially in love. What she wants to do, she would do it even she knows it seems rough..she still makes it happen… then she drags herself into suffering… I wonder sometime if she wanna play with pain or what?? Why she still go to that way even she knows there’re many sharp thorns??? Unhappy to see her sad…but cannot ban her from her insistency.

3 months before January 2013 was my maternity leave…cannot meet her as I want…and it was a surprising news since she would stop working to start her own business in this early new year…I feel scare of this leaving time….afraid of the distant would erase our friendship…really afraid of that!! Though, she told me she wouldn’t let time separate us…she won’t let this friendship out of date and I do hope it’s not just words or I will get hurt! To me, I’m so sure I can keep this relation well…she will always be in my memory…the noticeable person of my life…the one I will never forget..the one I will always keep remembering and reminding of our everyday sharing time…coz this reminding could make me smile easily…

I started from unknown her until 99.99% like her!!

Here's some selected of our photos....whatever events, we often stand or sit next to each other...lol

+++ On my birthday party last year... abit messy with no make up ^^:

+++ Company's parties & trips:

looked awkward...lol

+++ On ma wedding day:

+++ When I was pregnant:

  

+++ During working, also with our other colleagues:

 

Thank You Boss!

It’s the great news and a potential energy to a staff like me, once I got a letter after the New Year of salary increment and it seems pretty high with 18.5% increasing. Maybe it’s just a common news to other but it’s quite a surprising one to me since I’m presently in a deep poor condition, a financial crisis. Very thankful to you boss! Thank you so much for being with me, giving this high rate to me when I need the most. Thus, also wanna show my huge thanks for your kindly support during my maternity. What kind of good things have I done? I really wonder… if I know, I would keep doing that nonstop so then I would only meet generous people and get only satisfied desire like this…

In fact, I have been told many things and really not the positive things about you since I just started here and also keep hearing until now; though, I just don’t say it out and never care of this either coz what you have done to me is different from what I've heard. I’m not sure if you really did those things to them but to me currently, you are the best! You are so warm, helpful and feeling closed… just alike family member, get blame… get yell... be warned when I’m not really right but is called back as daughter or sister… Yeah… I confess I used to get disappointed with you… used to angry much... used to feel unfair…used to feel upset…  Nevertheless, your goodness that has done on me is so many until it covered all those little negative things. That’s why those miseries never stayed with me any longer…

“I don’t care how much I heard; I only care what I have met and value what I have got.”