The Same Person but Different...

Once you meet a guy whom is quite unique to you...from his so sweet caring...he always asks if you are fine...worry of you...even find out whenever you are unhappy...be with you all the time, make you smile, make you laugh and show as you are his girl in front of all people and even the only one... act as proudly to have you... pretty happy to be with you... no matter where he is, he still call to visit you...say he misses you...love you and even say that wanna marry you...You seem have no negative parts to him...This is a kind of Boyfriend that exists in this world... You just can’t say directly but actually you already agree to give the rest of your life be a long with him...really love him, excited and fall into romance and pinky world once there is him...Image and memory of your marvelous day together remain in both pure hearts... Finally, you both got married... 

HOWEVER, after married, life have been changed...that boyfriend whom is now your husband become so rough from time to time...become rude and arrogant, selfish and criticizes you, your appearance from toe to head... don’t really focus on your emotion...lets and push problems falling on you....keep challenging when anything happen for his defending to be the one whom is right... and cause you are not that easy to be fought... you keep challenging him back..such a revenge...you keep remembering all his mistakes..and he acts the same...problems re-happen..you both take those mistakes as reference to get challenging again...the scene of cool war real happen...lastly a party must get right...but what’s then? The right one still don’t look like happy to be a winner... and the loser still store anger in heart...even there have been found for who is right and who is wrong...but nothing get better...both sides keep silent to each other...from second to second...minutes to minutes...hours to hours and days to days...they still become speechless to each one... what’s then??

Sometime, you, a couple, really don’t know what is the proper way to act... if there is mistake and you won’t say it out...it will even gain...in contrast, if you say it out...there will be a debate war or if one keeps silent and lets another win...that person will keep remembering and ache in heart and soul..once it becomes more and more, it will explode one day..and argument will be even bigger...or if you may want to forget all of mistakes...forgive and forget...but are you sure you really can do it? You both afterward just really keep silent and be a part.... You both absolutely know that causing argument is nothing but damaging the relation of yours...You know it...and still lets it happen...WHY???